Add comprehensive security improvements across the application:
- **IP-based login protection**: Implement IP ban system tracking login failures, auto-banning after threshold exceeded
- **Ownership verification**: Add userID parameter to Delete/Update operations for posts and comments to prevent unauthorized modifications
- **SSRF protection**: Add URL and resolved host validation for image URLs in chat and OpenAI client
- **SQL injection prevention**: Add EscapeLikeWildcard utility to escape special characters in LIKE queries
- **HTTP security**: Configure server timeouts and add security headers middleware
- **Rate limiting**: Refactor to support configurable duration and per-endpoint rate limits for auth routes
- **Error handling**: Standardize error responses using HandleError and proper error types
The Go module name has been changed from `carrot_bbs` to `with_you`, which requires
all import paths to be updated throughout the codebase and by external consumers.
BREAKING CHANGE: Module name changed from carrot_bbs to with_you. All imports
and dependencies must be updated from carrot_bbs/* to with_you/*.
Implement a complete user identity verification system with support for multiple identity types (student, teacher, staff, alumni). The system includes user-facing verification submission and status checking endpoints, admin endpoints for reviewing verification requests, middleware for protecting verification-required routes, and integration with the user model to track verification status.
