fix(message): add robust NaN validation for date handling across components

Add comprehensive date validation using Number.isNaN() checks to prevent crashes when timestamps are invalid or empty. Apply defensive formatting across CommentItem, SystemMessageItem, MessageBubble, LongPressMenu, and store utilities.

Refine message bubble styling: move sender name display to both sides in group chat with distinct `mySenderName` styling, adjust bubble corner radius to top-right for consistent arrow placement, and align message rows to flex-start for improved layout. Simplify group avatar rendering in ConversationListRow.

src/components/business/SystemMessageItem.tsx

@@ -331,8 +331,11 @@ const SystemMessageItem: React.FC<SystemMessageItemProps> = ({
 
   // 格式化时间
   const formatTime = (dateString: string): string => {
+    if (!dateString) return '';
     try {
-      return formatDistanceToNow(new Date(dateString), {
+      const date = new Date(dateString);
+      if (Number.isNaN(date.getTime())) return '';
+      return formatDistanceToNow(date, {
         addSuffix: true,
         locale: zhCN,
       });