refactor: migrate post operations to use case architecture with differential updates

Migrate post-related operations from direct service/store calls to a new use case architecture featuring differential updates. Key changes include: (1) introduce ProcessPostUseCase to handle like, unlike, favorite, unfavorite, delete, and fetch operations with proper state management, (2) add useDifferentialPosts hook for efficient list rendering with minimal re-renders, (3) add PostDiffCalculator and PostUpdateBatcher in infrastructure layer for incremental updates, (4) deprecate NotificationItem component in favor of SystemMessageItem, (5) remove deprecated interactive methods from userStore, (6) add posts_cache table to local datasource, (7) clean up legacy MessageDTO and ConversationDTO types, (8) remove deprecated hook useBreakpointCheck, (9) refactor MessageBubble to use measureInWindow directly for better React Native compatibility

src/screens/message/MessageListScreen.tsx

@@ -265,7 +265,7 @@ export const MessageListScreen: React.FC = () => {
   }, [isFocused]);
 
   // 【新架构】使用focus刷新hook，从ChatScreen返回时自动刷新未读数
-  useMessageListRefresh(isFocused);
+  useMessageListRefresh();
 
   // 同步未读数到userStore（用于TabBar角标显示）
   useEffect(() => {