chore: update dependencies and improve bot configuration

- Upgrade Go version to 1.24.0 and update toolchain.
- Update various dependencies in go.mod and go.sum, including:
  - Upgrade `fasthttp/websocket` to v1.5.12
  - Upgrade `fsnotify/fsnotify` to v1.9.0
  - Upgrade `valyala/fasthttp` to v1.58.0
  - Add new dependencies for `bytedance/sonic` and `google/uuid`.
- Refactor bot configuration in config.toml to support multiple bot protocols, including "milky" and "onebot11".
- Modify internal configuration structures to accommodate new bot settings.
- Enhance event dispatcher with metrics tracking and asynchronous processing capabilities.
- Implement WebSocket connection management with heartbeat and reconnection logic.
- Update server handling for bot management and event publishing.

examples/onebot11_config.toml

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+# OneBot 11 适配器配置示例
+
+[bot]
+# 机器人自身ID（QQ号）
+self_id = "123456789"
+# 机器人昵称
+nickname = "MyBot"
+
+# ===== 连接方式配置 =====
+# 支持的连接类型: ws, ws-reverse, http, http-post
+connection_type = "ws"
+
+# ===== 正向 WebSocket 配置 =====
+# 当 connection_type = "ws" 时使用
+[websocket]
+# WebSocket 服务器地址
+ws_url = "ws://127.0.0.1:6700"
+# 访问令牌（可选）
+access_token = ""
+# 心跳间隔（秒）
+heartbeat = 30
+# 重连间隔（秒）
+reconnect_interval = 5
+
+# ===== 反向 WebSocket 配置 =====
+# 当 connection_type = "ws-reverse" 时使用
+[websocket_reverse]
+# 反向 WebSocket 监听地址
+ws_reverse_url = "0.0.0.0:8080"
+# 访问令牌（可选）
+access_token = ""
+
+# ===== HTTP 配置 =====
+# 当 connection_type = "http" 时使用
+[http]
+# HTTP API 地址
+http_url = "http://127.0.0.1:5700"
+# 访问令牌（可选）
+access_token = ""
+# 超时时间（秒）
+timeout = 30
+
+# ===== HTTP POST 上报配置 =====
+# 当 connection_type = "http-post" 时使用
+[http_post]
+# HTTP POST 上报地址
+http_post_url = "http://127.0.0.1:8080/onebot"
+# 签名密钥（可选）
+secret = ""
+# 超时时间（秒）
+timeout = 30
+
+# ===== 完整配置示例 =====
+
+# 示例 1: 使用正向 WebSocket
+# [[bots]]
+# self_id = "123456789"
+# nickname = "Bot1"
+# connection_type = "ws"
+# ws_url = "ws://127.0.0.1:6700"
+# access_token = "your_token_here"
+# timeout = 30
+
+# 示例 2: 使用 HTTP
+# [[bots]]
+# self_id = "987654321"
+# nickname = "Bot2"
+# connection_type = "http"
+# http_url = "http://127.0.0.1:5700"
+# access_token = "your_token_here"
+# timeout = 30
+
+# 示例 3: 使用反向 WebSocket
+# [[bots]]
+# self_id = "111222333"
+# nickname = "Bot3"
+# connection_type = "ws-reverse"
+# ws_reverse_url = "0.0.0.0:8080"
+# access_token = "your_token_here"
+
+# 示例 4: 使用 HTTP POST
+# [[bots]]
+# self_id = "444555666"
+# nickname = "Bot4"
+# connection_type = "http-post"
+# http_post_url = "http://127.0.0.1:8080/onebot"
+# secret = "your_secret_here"
+# timeout = 30